Advice? my husband & i are going to start trying to get pregnant, it will be my first, but his third ....?

(he doesn't have custody of his first two)


i'm just kinda nervous about how it will change our relationship %26amp; wondering if there's anything he %26amp; i should discuss first...


any advice?Advice? my husband %26amp; i are going to start trying to get pregnant, it will be my first, but his third ....?
i have 2 boys with my x and i have them full time.i am now engaged to a great guy he also has a little girl that he doesnt get to see.he treats my boys like his own.he loves hem to death just very recently we discovered that we are having twin girls together and he is over the moon.he was actually more excited than i was.if anything our relationship has become stronger.he had a work related injury and actually went back to work just so we can be financially secure.(as i said great guy)i wish you and your husband all the best and goodluck with whatever you decideAdvice? my husband %26amp; i are going to start trying to get pregnant, it will be my first, but his third ....?
l think experience is the best teacher so take the answers from those answers from the experienced peoples.See her other wife to what happened but he will love the baby.
I was in the same situation. What I kept on being nervous about was if he would love my baby as much as he loves his son from previous relationship. And how our daughter and his son were going to get along (just 2 years apart)


Talk to him about any concerns you have, this shouldn't change your relationship negatively if anything you guys will be even stronger and happier with a new addition to your family.





I don't know what your concerns are but if they are anything like mine express to him exactly how you feel.





oh and talk to his ex about if you want your children to grow close like siblings or not.
dont do it, leave that ***** now
You're smart to ask these questions. It will definitely change your relationship because you are committing, for the next 18 years of your life at least, to put someone else before either of you. That impacts your ability to do things together, changes the kinds of things you can do, etc. Really it changes your entire lifestyle.