A friend needs advice her husband never says he loves her never hugs her or shows any affection any more

The husband just presumes all the time and spends his time just doing nothing I do not know what to advise but i know there must be a better life for her and that she is unhappy and feels worthless


any idea pleaseA friend needs advice her husband never says he loves her never hugs her or shows any affection any more
here is my advice. throw a comma or a period in the mix once in a while, so that i don't feel like i am reading a William Faulkner novel.A friend needs advice her husband never says he loves her never hugs her or shows any affection any more
Your girlfriend should have a serious talk with husband. Many things could be going on with him. Maybe he's depressed about something so has lost interested in everything - maybe he's lost interest in your girlfriend because of some misunderstanding. Communication between the two would certainly help. If the husband refuses to open up then she'll have to do something drastic like leave him.
Ok, be honest with your friend, there's two sides to this thing. How does your friend look? You can call it shallow all you want, but if a guy married a hot chick, then that's what he's attracted to, not some muffin top with a SUPA DUPA FUPA!! Its actually an insult when a woman lets herself go. It shows she has no respect for herself or her husband.
I have a friend who is in the same type of relationship. Does your friend know this is actually abuse? Look up emotional abandonment.





I say, your friend needs to either get counseling or get out. Two choices.





I think my friend is getting out and I believe she's very excited about being free from this emotional abuse.





Tell your friend good luck. My friend knows how lonely this is. Tell your friend that she does matter and she is important and most of all she is lovable. Its his problem that makes him this way, not her.






I WOULDN'TT LEAVE JUST YET, ESPECIALLY IF THERE IS CHILDREN INVOLVED. I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS AND THOUGHT THE SAME THING, IS HE CHEATING? SHOLD I LEAVE?


MAYBE SOMETHING AT WORK IS BOTHERING HIM AND HE'S KEEPING IT IN, SOMETIMES MEN ARE PMS-ING AND FOR SOME STRANGE REASON THEY MAKE IT SEEM LIKE THEY ARE NOT HAPPY WITH US. IT'S A PHASE I SAY.JUST MAKE SURE TO ASK HIM IF HE IS OKAY AND IF EVERYTHING AT WORK IS OKAY, TELL HIM HE'S BEEN DISTANT LATELY AND HOPEFULLY HE WILL SNAP OUT OF IT. DON'T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS
then she should talk to him and ask him why and that it is making her unhappy, if he loves her then he will listen and do something about it, he might not even be aware that he is doing it, it is easy to get into a rut with relationships
Are there children involved? Has she tried communicating with him? You left out LOTS of details.


If she's tried everything and nothing works then she should leave him. She should know that going through divorce is no walk in the park AND costly.
leave? he'll start paying more attention if she threatens divorce but it wint last long so she should just go. lifes short.
tell her to find someone that does?she desirves to be loved. everyone does. good luck. hard to watch them just take it i no!!!!
Sounds like a case of depression....





If I would be you, I would leave and rebuilt my life and self esteem!






divorce is the solution
ok, so leave him.