Advice please! I've been with my husband for ten years and I'm just not happy with him anymore what do i do?

He has known I feel like this for about 2 years everyone tells me to deal with it cuz we hav 3 kids but I';m really not happy and I'm feeling guilty. What should I do?Advice please! I've been with my husband for ten years and I'm just not happy with him anymore what do i do?
You need to get happy! ! ! IF you are not a happy person with him you will NOT be a happy person without him! ! !








SO what should you do???? Work on getting happy for yourself and for your emotional and physical well-being! ! !








As for staying with your husband or divorcing? That is your decision BUT don't make it thinking without him you will be happy! ! !











Imagine this, what happens if you divorce and your ex finds a wonderful woman that is younger pretty and a much happier person than you, gets married to her and your children even like her better than you????? How do you think you will feel then????Advice please! I've been with my husband for ten years and I'm just not happy with him anymore what do i do?
Marriage is a commitment.


Fix your marriage - if you bail on this you'll just end up unhappy with the next guy and the next guy and be 50 and single for rest of your life.





Mid-life-crisis causes you to loose happiness from things that used to make you happy - that's why people buy new sports cars and crap like that. Change things for the better, change your life to make you happier and stop blaming your husband because you don't like your life.





Anti-depressants can help if you are really struggling with this.
Maybe you should find out what you are not happy with in your relationship and try to fix it leaving doesn't mean things are going to be better single or with someone else. Marriage is hard work. I would invest in restoring your marriage it can be fixed. My personal opinion would be not to stay just for the kids but try to rebuild it so that its not the only reason you are still in your marriage. read ';The power of a praying wife by: Stormie Omartian.
I really think you should work it out with your husband and for your children. I am here for you and him but this really needs to be fixed for the children. I know you two love each other and make each other happy things are just tough right now and it will get better and you two have been through worse..........
whoever is telling u to deal with it i agree, u have 3 kids. if u and ur 3 kids were hungry but only enough food for 3 would u feed urself and not one of the kids. noooooooooooo so woman up and deal with it for ur kids, they didnt ask to be brought here when u was loving ur man, so find a way to love him again and deal with it, i suggest get some help from the only one who can help........JESUS.
Either accept what you have or find something else. Just remember that three others will be affected by whatever decision you make. Be careful.
If you are not happy now you are going to be happy when you break up ,the kids are going to suffer though it all.
Get marriage counseling. Unless there's abuse on one or both of your parts then you owe it to your children to make the marriage work so they don't come from a broken home.
Go to counseling, it might help. Unless you have totally given up on the relationship, which it sounds like you have.
Is there a reason why you're not happy? You might just be miserable for no reason.
may be it;s you (?)