Leaving husband. Any advice would be helpful.?

We have 2 kids, school age, a house, 3 vehicles, and other small assets. I am walking away with joint custody, my car, and the contents of the house...which is my choice. He and I have agreed to this but have yet to speak to a lawyer. Any advice?Leaving husband. Any advice would be helpful.?
It is never easy yet no one should live un happy.


You are smart to say that your kids will benefit they are so receptive to their surroundings.


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I really don't know the detail of your problem, you said he's a good father but a shitty husband, I just presumed he abused you physically, mentally or verbally. Anyway, If he abused you physically, you have to move out. Talk to a lawyer and consult your problem. If your children are all below 7 years old, then they can stay with you. But please try to settle it nicely for the sake of your children, after all you said he's a good father. Who knows he might change his behavior/attitudes towards you.
I would file first. He can promise you the moon, but until it is on paper, you have nothing, girlfriend. If you are walking away without those kids in your hands, you will lose them.





Why are you leaving the house? Why isn't he? Why are you giving him so much and taking so little? He's going to take you for everything once you walk out that door. I would think twice. If there is another man involved, I can promise you that he will not be what you think he is, and you will always regret leaving this way for a man who promises you the moon and once again, gives you nothing but heartache. No, he is not ';different';.
the fact that you have taken the step and decided to make a better live for you and your 2 kids is a big plus. Everybody can give you advise and tell you to do this or that, but at the end of the day you must think of whats best for you and your 2 kids and that is going to make the 3 of you happy. I can only say that you must do and think of what is reasonable and make sure you get what you deserve and move on to a future you and your 2 kids deserve. It's not an easy situation, but remember of what is best for you and your 2 kids and what will make the 3 of you happier in the long run. Don't just let go of everything you've build up while married, but be fare and reasonable and move on with your life and it's hard now, but as time go you will never look back and be glad and proud of what you did. so good luck and stay strong and only think of doing what will give you and your 2 kids happiness.
Legally, get a lawyer and make sure the ';agreement'; you both have becomes legal. Until you do that, there is no agreement. So act on this now.





As for anything else, stay away from him, if you don't, it will send mixed messages to both him and the children.





Lastly, raise the children well and have a good life.
family counseling better.


kids are there which forms family.


family ties go with society and social ethics.


so why not compromise and live happily?


life is short and family goes with future.


future is best for children.


think it over, both of you.
Going thru a similar situation.


Go to the lawyer, make it official and start you life over.


Its always better to get that stated in writing, you never know when he might decide to change his mind and want more.
if you both agree i dont think that the lawyer would have any objection to it.take whats your and thats it hun.


good luck with everything xoxox
Speak to a lawyer and good luck to the start of your new life!
go to the law and ethics section in the politics section.


good luck.