Need Advice Husband is lying?

About three four months ago I asked my husband to stop picking up this guy from his work because he was a bad influence. This guy is cheating on his wife and calls her bad names. He swore to me he wouldnt Today I found out he has been picking this guy up behind my back What do I do? We have had more marriage problems besides this, He lets his family walk over me. I am tired of this I need adviceNeed Advice Husband is lying?
wow. Sounds exactly like my life. The only thing i can tell you is to try an ultemadum. Stop lying and tell the truth and choose his family or you!!!Need Advice Husband is lying?
the honest answer is if he is lying to you about this he is lying to you about more stuff...(i'm not talking about infedility here i'm just talking about lying in general) it will make it very hard for you to know when he is telling the truth and when he is not. you need to decide if you can live with never knowing when he is telling the truth. i had a friend that lied all the time trying to figure out what is truly going on can be mentally exhasusting.
I have a feeling he will get tired of that loser guy, wait a little while. I would confront the guy and tell him I am going to tell his wife everything, just to take the wind out of his sail.. As for the inlaws if he won't deal; then YOU GET IN THEIR FACE.


I am telling you not to put up with disrespect from them.
Try talking to him again.


tell him that you found out about him giving that dude a ride home.


I hate it when a guy lies behind your back..it pisses me off....





and maybe you should tell him to do something if he lets your family walk all over you.


Well i hope everything works out


good luck%26lt;3
Do you want a blunt answer? End it now. I am sorry...but I am having major marriage issues as well and I think I am giving up on marriage. Will these guys ever take our feelings into consideration? Why are we not allowed a say?
see a counselor now. If issues like this are consuming you, then you need to seek a counselor's advice or else... divorce.





edit: why the thumb down? I'm only stating my opinion... sheesh!
Give him1 more chance. If he still doesn't, then get rid of him
i think the only problem is that he lied to u. its not that big of a deal that he gave the guy a ride. he's a guy, he was already given the guy a ride and then (you) his wife kinda acted like his mom telling him basically he hang out with someone because he was a bad influence. i think he's a grown man and knows how to not let someone ';influence'; him. just because this guy is cheating on his wife and calling her bad names doesnt mean ur husband would, is he would then that a whole other issue. im sure ur man didnt wanna tell this guy ';hey i cant give u a ride anymore cuz my wife said so..'; u gotta think of it through a guys perspective, give him a break. TRUST me, my husband has alot of ';bad influence'; friends and he would never let any of them ';influence'; him because he loves me and no friends will change that.. if u were more secure with ur marriage then u would have absolutely no problem with this whole situation. but like i said, lying to u is a different story, but u kinda forced him too. good luck and give ur man a break or u'll find him lying about more and more little things..