Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Advice....my husband is an a hole when he drinks?

he is such a lighweight, he gets drunk about 2 hours before everyone else, and either passes out, or becomes dr jekel. he is usually a pretty nice guy, but when he gets drunk he bitches about everything and tries to start fights, only with me. no i do not ***** or rag him about it. i just wait for him to fall asleep. he is not an alcoholic, i just was wondering what you guys are thinking when you are drunk, and what to do to get you to shut upAdvice....my husband is an a hole when he drinks?
record one of his rants on video and show it to him when he sobers up. Maybe he'll consider not drinking after he sees for himself what a jerk he turns into.Advice....my husband is an a hole when he drinks?
Tell him how you feel. Life is complicated enough without having to do it while drunk and out of control. If he is unrespectful when he drinks don't encourage it by bringing any booze into the house, tell him you won't be around him when he's drunk...go to another room, visit someone, take the kids out, etc. If he does not get the message counseling may help, provided he shows up in mind and body. If he is abusive get help. It is important to be discreet if this marriage is something you feel is worth keeping. So avoid blabber mouth sources like churches ( which are not usually equipped for this stuff) and seek a professional's help. If he is humiliated, not good for the children, he may just walk away. If that is what you want just leave him.
My husband is the same exact way. If he is not drinking he is the greatest person on earth but after he is drunk, he nitpicks everything and picks fights with me. I just usually walk away or go to another part of the house and he eventually just goes and lays down then he will be fine when he gets back up again.
That's how my hubby gets to so it got to the point where he gets so annoying that i just dint drink with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?Or when i do drink with him its just no fun i mean no one wants to drink with some one like that!! Just tell him look i like having a good time n and drinking with you but i don't like it when u start acting stupid and u act embarrassing so either stop acting like that or im not gonna drink with you!!!! see what he says hopefully he will change or better yet record him acting stupid n show it to him n tell him this is how u act when u get drunk!!!hope this works:)
Mine does that too. He will go nuts sometimes and tell me i am sleeping with everyone that is around. Anyone. He doesn't care. ANd then he will proceed to tell me he wants to sleep with every girl thats around him, except me.


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were not thinking and if he is like that not going to shut up try talking to him about it when he not drink and see if ya,ll can work this out
dont ***** about it
Dont let him drink

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