I need advice. Husband wants to start a porn website with his buddies?

My husband and 4 of his male friends have been discussing starting a porn website on the side. (They all have steady jobs; this would just be for extra income). They have been planning this out for about 2 years now and have just decided to go ahead with it. They have the male talent, cameras %26amp; equipment, %26amp; a location. All they would need to do is sub-contract the female talent, and he said they would go through craigslist to do that.


My husband JUST recently asked me how I felt about it, so I obviously have some thinking to do %26amp; I need advice.





My husband has ALWAYS loved to watch porn, even before we met, so I have always known this and I don't have a big problem with it. I am pretty open-minded and I know that men will be men, regardless of whether I like porn or not. I watch it with him sometimes, but he is definitely the bigger fan. We trust each other, have never cheated, and have a good marriage. I am also almost 7 months pregnant with our 1st child.





To be continued...I need advice. Husband wants to start a porn website with his buddies?
It sounds like you trust him with everything except the fact that the business might fail (which is the only part my wife wouldn't care about). I imagine that porn is a pretty solid industry if they think they can actually compete with the major productions. If they actually have resources...I'd say...let him have at it...they may fail; however, if they do well the money is all theirs.I need advice. Husband wants to start a porn website with his buddies?
Did he get the idea from that movie ';Knocked Up';? Congrats on your first bundle of joy. Watching porn is perverted and a sin.
If you think he isn't going to bang these porn girls, you are crazy. You really expect him to watch these freaks f uck all day and not want to get in on the action? Please.





And you are right about the market being played out. There are already over THOUSANDS of porns sites out there. Why would anyone bother paying for another one run by a bunch of bored goof balls?





If you allow this, expect to be a single mom sooner then later...
Though some may view porn as unethical, I can only imagine there will be a huge ammount of money that can be made from this site if and when they create it. Think about it: Between regular subscriptions, and the money made from advertising (which is also a huge expense) there is potential to make a big profit.





If you are not worried abotu him cheating, (and Just because a man directs porn doesn't automatically mean he will cheat) And you understand the process of how it's created, made, and his place in the process, and you are cooll with it, have him go for it. It may be very lucrative for you.





However you are rigth in one thing. Porn sites ar a dime a dozen. He's have to find a niche that is either popular enough to draw customers, or one that is in high demand with low supply (like oil, too much demand but not enough to go around)





if they play this smart they can make a profit. Running a bussiness is more than just putting it out there. Belive me, I've though myself about the porn industry as a good source of income (thought about , but never really intended to do it!) but then I realize how much goes into it and the potential porblems that can come from it, finacially.





Your son, do what you can to not expose him to this at all. have him keep this type of work in the studio and not bring it home with him (not the women, the conversation)
if his concern is bringing home extra money, tell him to find a part time job,... cause this just sounds fishy to me
Appears like a man identfiying an alternate and somewhat creative income for his family, of course as long as its all legal and safe for those involved and If you are secure with this business idea and the environment he will be exposed to then why not. Im sure you do have a lot of thinking to do as you need to consider any negative impact this may cause in the long term on your relationship or in general. You sound like you have good communication in your marriage which is a start.Take Care
your daughter will be so proud of her daddies side job
I think that for you to even consider allowing your husband to start up a porn website is disgusting....And you don't think that one day your children won't find out about this? Your attitude that ';men will be men'; shows that you will put up with just about anything that your husband will try to bring into your marriage...And if you really don't think he will end up f*cking the whores that will be on his porn site....You are only kidding yourself....
Congrats on the baby :)





I think that - as long as he does not want to be an active ';participant'; and if it is alright with you, then do as you guys wish.





I think you both need to question one thing - How will you explain this to your child as they grow up? I would weigh your values and goals before proceeding.
woah...well if you feel that way maybe it's acceptable but...you better make sure he is not involved with selecting the talent or is in a situation where he's around the girls...you did say men will be men and if a man has a chance with a hot girl - the temptation would be too much...why would you be ok with him being around and looking at hot naked girls all day while your home with a new baby! i'd say your crazy. sorry...just my opinion...
I feel so sorry for that poor innocent baby being brought into your Godless, Soulless union......I really do.





And to use that money that will be earned on your family.....disgusting.





I wonder how some people can sleep at night. Seriously.





And don't think for a second your ';Husband';'s attitude in regards to sex and other women wont change....he will be having sex with some of these other women- believe it! Maybe not today, and maybe not tomorrow, but it will happen.....nice attitude he has already about sexuality...not very healthy at all!
Wow,,,,you are really asking for trouble with this one,,,,i think its gross and pathetic you are allowing this in your marriage,,,,
I dunno, but if you trust him, and you have a good marriage, then I guess. But the first sign you see that something is not right, tell him to get out. I wouldn't like it though, if it were my husband, and he likes porn also. This is a touchy situation.
You know watching it and actually producing it is two different things. You will be at home with the baby, being very busy, when your husband will be taking pic of naked women? This doesn't seem fair to you at all. Isn't there something else that he could do to make extra money? I am married myself with a 3 year old, and there is no way I would ever let my husband do that. I understand you trust him, but think of the temptation that will be there. Plus, all the legal issues. What if he photographs someone under age? Can you imagine all the legal issues here? Please think about all of this. There are so many other ways to make money! Nudity isn't one of them!
Sounds like a great idea!





Well,....that's if you want your hubby to hang with trashy whores!





Don't worry I'm sure they are the type not to play with married men!
I doooooooon't know.........sorta sounds a little bit funky to me. Maybe since he's always enjoyed porn, it's his own little ';taking it a step further'; by enjoying it live. I know I wouldn't like it. Think about this for a minute. You're pregnant and soon will be a new mother. Motherhood is very hard work and the schedule of the day is set by your infant. Some days you will think you're lucky that you got your shower. You will be exhausted and not feeling sexy and he will be out ';earning extra income'; by watching and directing naked women?





I think all of his attention right now should be at home with you and the impending birth of your child.
As long as its legal I guess.....Good luck.
Sounds like a good idea to me. At least he has other business partners to help him out with this venture. Not allowing him to do something he has planning for two years will put some considerable strain on your marriage. Most likely he will resent you if the venture takes off without his involvement.
You knew what kind of guy you were marrying when you married him, so it would be somewhat hypocritical to say no to the porn website idea.





Just make sure to keep it from the children as well as you possibly can.
If you both feel that it can work between you two then I would give it a try and see if things work out. If it start to fly south then make him stop!


Set some ground rules and you be involved on some of the decision they are making to!
he is going to jail!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he is a ***.
My hubby likes to watch porn too and so do I, but I would have a major problem with him actually being there producing it....
It sounds like he wants to bring in some extra money for you and the baby. If you don't have a problem with him watching porn you shouldn't have a problem with him producing it. Make sure he follows all regulations, everybody is safe, yada yada yada.





The extra money will be nice, and if he enjoys the work he'll be in a better mood. The only foreseeable problem is his sex drive. Being around sex all day, will drive it down.
Ask him if i can join
I cant imagine this could be a good environment in which to raise a child.