Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Wanting two try a three some with husband any advice?

i ve always wanted to have a three some with my husband and another guy.Wanting two try a three some with husband any advice?
Your husband is a lucky guy. I want to try the same thing with my wife, but so far, she's put me off. Maybe someday!Wanting two try a three some with husband any advice?
I鈥檒l tell you one thing and one thing only, your husband isn鈥檛 going to want to watch another guy have sex with his wife in front of him. I鈥檓 guessing you aren鈥檛 swingers so it鈥檚 not gonna fly, another woman MAYBE, but I鈥檒l be honest with you I鈥檝e been with my girl for 2 years and I don鈥檛 want to bring anyone into our bedroom man or woman. I鈥檓 more than satisfied with just her, maybe you鈥檙e looking for a threesome because your husband isn鈥檛 doing enough for you?





Don鈥檛 ask him is my advice, the minute you ask he鈥檚 gonna know you want to sleep with another guy and he鈥檚 never gonna trust you again鈥? Check out a sex shop and get creative, that鈥檚 much more safe then ruining your marriage with another man in your bed.
Few people can emotionally handle a threesome. If you and your husband are one of the few who are emotionally stable enough to do it without repercussion, go for it! However, many think they can handle it, few really can.





A couple of years ago a friend and his wife coaxed me into joining them and I must it admit it was pretty hot. However, she started craving threesomes to the point of preferring them over normal sex with her husband, Eventually, they grew into moresomes and then into full out gangbangs with 10-12 guys at one time. It eventually destroyed their marriage and now they are separated and going through a divorce.





Be very careful.
First off you have to make sure your husband and yourself are really ready for this. If your husband gets uncomfortable in the middle of it, the party should stop. Before this happens sit the the guy down (with your husband) and set some boundry rules)





Don't be suprised if your husband asks another lady to join in one night, it's only fair!
This is a great fantasy. I have this feeling that people who try threesomes like this want to do it for the experience, then are shocked by the level of intimacy that's involved. The other begins to dominate your thoughts...your husband knows it...is jealous and thinks it's unfair...before you know it, the relationship is gone.





My advice: But a vibe and give it a male name. Then allow ';him'; to participate. You could even have dates with ';the other man'; while hubby is away...and letting him know it would make him hot.
Do not do it. It will ruin your relationship. What if you were to move a certain way or make a noise a certain way your husband will say you have never done that with me before. It will eventually get to him. You married him to be faithful and loving with just the two of you. Be smart and be more creative without having another.
You would be better off trying to bring in another woman. Your husband may not be into 'any' swinging... but the chances of a jealous rant are a million times more if you try to bring another 'rooster' into the coop, it probably won't work. There are a lot of variables. Run it by him in the heat of passion and see how he reacts. Good luck, what's your number? hehe I live in Tn.


** you could also introduce some 'toy's' into the bedroom.. and have a similar effect with no jealousy. Toys can be very fun.. think about it.
Just be careful...it can end up being a great memory, or the beginning of the end of your relationship.





Talk about all aspects of it before it occurs...any boundaries, jealousies, etc. If there is any hesitation on either of your parts, don't do it.





Otherwise, be safe and have fun.
If he is willing... then why not... To each their own right? But, you know you have to be fair... He does this for you... that means he'll find another woman to give him a threesome with... FAIR IS FAIR.





Just make sure there are rules in place...
Hi friend,


Just by merely mentioning it to your husband might already trigger a quarrel. Stick to your fantasies and don't let it out. If I were your husband, I might get turned off as well.
Get a porn and talk about all the scenes with multiple people afte you've watched it several times and said oh that makes me hot, he may ask or you could pop the question.





I'd love it!
A 3some with 2 girls and 1 guy is ok, A 3some with 2guys and 1 girl is not ok, I'm pretty sure every straight man would never do that, so you can try asking you husband but he will say no!!!
It would be pretty hard to have to agree to it. Most guys will only ever agree to a threesome if its two girls.





Guys aren't as comfortable with their sexuality that girls are.
isnt that like cheating...?


i would not do it but if you feel u want to destroy your mariage in front of your husband... whatever. what u hgonna tell him, hey honey can we do a threesome with my friend jack???
MAYBE IF YOU SWITCH IT TO A FEMALE HE WILL BE WILLING TO DO IT. DON'T GET ME WRONG, A WOMAN CAN DO THE SAME THING THAT A MAN CAN DO AND PROBABLY BETTER.
As someone who has been there, done that, I can tell you that this CAN be great - but only if you are both completely on board for it.
he won't like it - make it another girl and he'll go for it -





but listen - if he does feel up to the two guy thing let me know
Wow if your husband willing to do that then obviously theirs something wrong wit him, if hes not leave him alone!
if you wanted to have sex with other people why get married..if he's down to share you with a nother guy..thats crazy..winky dinky ho-cake
Ask your husband if he'd like to touch another men's penis. Let the fun begin.
If you want a quick road to self destruct your marriage keep it as a fantasy.
Beware of the consequences!!!!!!
would be very surprised if hubby was ';up'; for this





if he is I would be very worried :-)
haha ummm... not sure your husband will like that, since hes your husband and all...if hes okay with it, have fun...
Good luck!
Don't do it. It will destroy your marriage.
make him a deal 2 3 somes one with 2 guys


one with 2 girls
Is your husband willing to be butt naked with another man in the same bed? My fiance would kill himself first.
that's nasty don't do it
Go for it.


I'd even be willing to help you out.

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