Hi, i'm ann. My husband has become to addicted to alchol (dewars).pls advice what can i do to help him quit

He is a very nice person naturaly. Once he consumes alchol,he changes totaly. He uses abusive languages and at times becomes abusive. It pains me as i have 3 young children at home who have to witness at times. very stresses. he needs help but doesn't want to go for any counseling. is der any pills that i can get him to consume that will help him to cut his drinking habit. pls helpHi, i'm ann. My husband has become to addicted to alchol (dewars).pls advice what can i do to help him quit
Nothing that can help unless he goes to rehab. The most you can do is talk to him and make him realize what he is doing and that is hurting his family. My dad is an alcoholic, we've been wanting him to go to rehab but he doesnt want to, when he stopped drinking he started doing drugs. They are addicts, they need help, they leave one habit and then they have to pick up another one. If they dont get profesional help they'll slowly kill themselves and hurt you and your children in the way, like it happened to my mom and us. I would consider leaving him if I was you, is better for your children. My mom never did and I suffered my whole life.Hi, i'm ann. My husband has become to addicted to alchol (dewars).pls advice what can i do to help him quit
sadly there is nothing u can do but get help for yourself,i recomend calling al-anon , u can google it for your area. they are all or have been in your shoes. http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/ I put my family through it for 20 some odd years (sober 8 yrs now) and it took me to almost losing everything including my buisness to realize Im not only hurting myself !!!! get help for your self right now and hope he does not hurt or kill himself or someone else. he has to make the first move to recovery.May God be with you on whats going to be a longterm move by you!! as for pills there is anabuse.. it will make him very sick if he drinks, but i dont recomend that as it could lead to death as well
i know you care and want to help your husband,but he has to be the one who wants to quit,he has to admit having a problem with it.is there a safe place you and the children can go if he becomes abusive?maybe you could attend alonon meetings to help you better understand your husbands disease.
Leave him.





Its sound like he's an alcoholic, is so, he can only help himself. He have to want to quit. By you leaving, perhaps will cause him to 'wake up'.





If you stay, it will only get worst for you and your kids. Leave him.