I'm trying to stay awy from my husband any advice?

I'm seperated from my husband Long story short we have slept together 2 times a week except for the time he was in the military from july till nov. Well he came back end of nov we resumed are sex and seeing each other going out to eat ect and him helping me around the house or doing something for my daughter or picking up his ect. Well lately i'm thinking almost a yr he left last may 14th the sex is not working to bring him home or any of my niceness i was used before he moved out and now i finally see he just came back from the army to use me more.i want to be done with him but i know as soon as i'm really feed up he will come around and be nice enough to give me hope so i don't divorce him Then he will go rite back to being distant except for the booty calls Its really sad to have your husband reduce you from love and wife to someone he meets for sex. He says if he was using me he wouldn't help me around the house he comes over and fixes stuff.I'm trying to stay awy from my husband any advice?
Please have a little more self respect for yourself.. Tell him to find himself another piece of tail and hire yourself a handy man..I'm trying to stay awy from my husband any advice?
Sex will never make him want you.Find someone who appreciates you and will return your love. You gave him plenty of chances he didn't take them move on. You should have to wait around for him. he is out living his life while you are dreaming about something that will never be.
It does sound hard. One suggestion is to concentrate on making yourself happier %26amp; stronger...and busier. Take up a lot of whole new activities %26amp; PEOPLE. Lots and lots of friends and make plans to go outside with them, have them over...drown yourself in other people, practically. Hopefully one or two will start to become more important in your life (girls, guys...doesn't matter).





Yoga / exercise is also great.





That is my suggestion: make your life so big that he becomes only a small part of it. And you'll have a whole swag of other people to think about, worry about, connect with. Well, it is a strategy...
heck...let me go to your house and fix things up,,too ok.....lol
-You have kids in common,he visits,he does shopping,helps around the house and you have sex often.You are behaving like a standard married couple,SO WHAT PART OF HIM DON'T YOU WANT????


-You are too connected for anyone to logically advise you to: seek final divorce and court protection orders!!!!
next time he goes away, pick up and move house. don't tell him, don't contact him, start a new life.





start a life where you make the rules, and you demand respect for any man who even THINKS about sharing your bed.
He's using you for exactly what you're made for.
Find out what you really want. If you're not happy and satisfied how things are then divorce him regardless of how he's treating you at that moment. You deserve to be happy too you know. (BTW fixing things does not equate to sex.) You're better than that.