Monday, August 23, 2010

Need advice about husband....?

Okay so my husband said something not so nice to someone about me (said i was clumsy and says 'how many times do you have to go to the er to use caution?). It hurt my feelings.. I talked to him about it, he says he never intended to hurt my feelings and that he was sorry. Thing is he tried to act like he didn't say it, yet he wrote it in an email the day before... why would he do that?Need advice about husband....?
That's how most men are - they always tend to defend their egos, and absolutely HATE admitting that they're wrong or getting caught red-handed doing something they know is wrong. Have a serious talk with him - tell him that you felt disrespected and that you would be willing to forget about it if he is more careful about his conversations next time. If you are serious he will probably understand - but don't feel hurt if he doesn't apologize right out in the open. Guys need to protect their ';dignity.';Need advice about husband....?
Well, I personally take things like that with a grain of salt. I am clumsy and I just laugh about it. It seems as though your hubby was just trying to get a laugh from someone at your expense. He says he was sorry and hopefully it wont happen again. If it does since you have discussed this with him, would be another issue.
Are you clumsy? if you are then what's the problem.You should here what my husband tells everyone about me. It's all true what he tells others so how can i get mad it isn't worth it and besides that my feelings doesn't get hurt that easily and neither should yours. It isn't worth it.
because he's a coward, and the only way he can deal with people he fears are better than he is (um, that's everyone), is by manipulating, lying, and abusing them, emotionally, verbally, and if you don't watch yourself, physically.





That's why he would do that.
Oh sweetheart , at least you and him talked about it and he APOLOGIZED, geeze. Are you clumsy? If you are and he said the truth, he did try and not let it hurt you so bad, let it go. Just let it go.
Because he's totally insensitive. Discuss this with him now - it will only get worse if you let it go. This is how some men gradually become emotionally abusive. Do you really want to live with someone who's so willing to put you down like that?
If your clumsy your clumsy and that's all there is to it, at least he felt bad and apologized. Your married,don't sweat the small stuff or the big stuff is gonna really get ya.
He cares about your safety, but in retrospect he had a poor choice of words. He said he was sorry, so just be happy he cares for your well being.
Because you caught him and pinned him in the corner. Of course he will lie when he knows he F*ed up.
MY BF SAYS THAT TOO =/
uh, thats really not a big deal. Your just being a baby.
I dont see the big deal...really...sorry.





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Geez....how many times did u go to the E.R??
Your husband can't win.


You get mad when he tells the truth about you being clumsy. (by the way are you overweight? I find overweight people are often clumsy)


And I'd bet you get mad when he lies.


Poor man.

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