My Husband is wanting some advice my husband sometimes feels like a fool because she knows i cant let go of?

her maybe she might be taken advantage of the situation i know about her emotional affair and we are back togetaher working things out she has been totally honest with me and i know she has but i cant help but think i am maybe she might be taking advantage of my love for her she is been great and i hope we make it but i am not sure what to do the affair has knocked me for six and i so want to make it with her we been married for 30years now and two grown up children she let me ask this question some advice would be great from anyone that has been in this situations i am sure many of you have i am just a concerned husband that loves and adores his wife so very much any advice would be greatMy Husband is wanting some advice my husband sometimes feels like a fool because she knows i cant let go of?
My Husband is wanting some advice my husband sometimes feels like a fool because she knows i cant let go of?





You have big misunderstanding with your wife. Then she left you and got entangled to a relationship of a 26 year old guy.


She had realize that she had wrong you and now you are back together again. Both of you are trying very hard to bring back to the relationship which you two had before the incident. Yet you found out that the stain relationship due to a deceiving wife is not easily washed off from your memory. The residue of the trauma had sink deep into you. Now it had affected your sexual urges to the extend that it also affect your wife's sexual satisfaction.


Had a problem not escalated to a serious and difficult to heal. It will be easy for as to say to you to forget and forgive although it is easier said than done. But your situation as I look at, had reach to a point that what our words, our advices can only touch the surface of your problem but not to its root. So if our advice is to be taken into account it will heal temporarily yet sooner of later for all you you will be back into the same situation and the same problem which as of now I am avoiding to happen. So what you need now is real good Professional Psychotherapist that can Analise and know how to dig deep and reach into the root of your two problems that had already full grow into a sexual problem. As will as we have to take consideration of you age. You know age affect the sexual urges of human. There are problem that we think that are easy to control but in reality it is more than we see in the surface.


There are things to be done on the problems you two have which can not be done on the Internet but can only be solve by meeting trained person like a professional Psychotherapist . Remember they have expertize that we an ordinary adviser do not know.


Take note that some of us in the Internet are just playing games.





Another way is to find a church to join. They have also their own marriage councilors. Remember problem are easier solve if you involve Jesus on solution of your problems.











I hope that this will help you in anyway.





God blessMy Husband is wanting some advice my husband sometimes feels like a fool because she knows i cant let go of?
Trust is the issue here. she has betrayed your trust, and it is up to her to prove she can be trusted. {see sources below} Counseling will be helpful. Recovery time is long for this sort of indiscretion. Go slow and talk it out honestly. Don't forget to look at yourself at least 40% is your falt. Although 100% Hers, It was her job to protect the marriage at the time.
The husband needs to let her know he doesn't tolerate cheating of any kind and she can kiss this marriage goodbye if she cannot be faithtful to him.
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Dude get real start making love to your wife otherways U going to loose her for good
HAHA


i dont know what u talkin bout


lol :/


YESB !!!
Your question is a bit out of order and by that I mean is hard to find the subject, for what I can put together one of you guys had an affair OK everyone goes trough things like these, MARRIAGE COUNSELING is the answer here, you guys have being together so long...Maybe she was going trough something you need to go back trough memory lane how is your marriage was before when your kids were little, do you love her and do she loves you, if she say yes and you have a strong base marriage you guys are like everybody else you just going trough something, Forgiveness is the most important thing here and this is not easy to do but love can conquer all.. if you both back in track all there is to do is forgive and get some counseling.. and please don't think your the only one going trough this is not the end of the world.. like I say marriage counseling is the answer..