My husband is a cheater? Pls give me advice what to do?

He cheated me twice. I cried so hard. I took care of him when he got into motor accident dough I'm aware that he came from his mistress bfore the accident. I morn a lot and he knew that Im in pain but I ignore everything and instead leaving him. Still remain as a good wife. Last night I caught him still having a communication with the girl after he promised me he will change. Am really stupid?My husband is a cheater? Pls give me advice what to do?
no your not stupid just naive.we all have to do what we feel is right, but a serial cheater will never change, this man will never give u the peace u deserve.there are so many good men out there that would love to have someone like yourself, don't ignore what this man is doing to u.My husband is a cheater? Pls give me advice what to do?
No, you are not stupid, I believed THREE times that my hubby of 16 years stopped all communications with his husband poacher--but NO, I was once again wrong. Not a fool, just committed and in love. Please ask yourself if the relationship is worth saving and work from there. Find out everything you can about the whore and expose the affair and do all you can to make her life miserable. Sometimes that's all it takes, then concentrate on fixing your relationship. Do not let her win. Once I stopped enabling them, they were done. Good Luck and Lots of Peace, Love and Joy to you. Please read the book ';divorce busters'; it really helped me. Then if all works out, read ';after the affair'; it's awesome and insightful.
Yes you are stupid to be blunt. Do you have any self-respect or doesn't it bother you when he is dishonest, disrespectful and untrustworthy. Obviously it does, so you need to ask yourself ';why do I stay?';





A good wife has nothing to do with anything you are talking about. He sure as hell is not being a ';good husband';.





You need to confront him, let him lie to you for the last time (';I'm only talking to her';, or ';It was the last time';) and then leave him.





What exactly are you waiting for? To actually see him having sex with someone else??





Go find a man who will respect you and treat you the way you want to be treated.





';I love him'; are the most common words spoken by a doormat.
I'm all for working on a marriage and not throwing in the towel at the first sign of trouble, but it appears that your husband is a cheater and doesn't want to stop. Because of that, I think your best option is to file for divorce and leave. It will suck and be very painful...but in the long run it will probably save you from a lifetime of tears and grief caused by an unfaithful husband.
Don't be so hard on yourself. You are not stupid you were just trying to love your husband. He has proved to you several times he is not going to change. You gave him a chance despite all the pain he put you through. It's time for you to take care of yourself and your feelings and move on without him.
If you've gotten over it once, and he's done it again... It's time you leave. You did what you could to turn the other cheek, but this is just plain disrespect and disloyalty. If you don't have either of those, then you may as well consider yourself no longer in a relationship. This is not likely the only promise he's ever broken. It's time to pack up the bags, hun.
If you have insurance check into counseling. The real reason you stay lies within yourself and your self esteem. When you get to a place were you KNOW that you deserve love and commitment you will know what to do. A man like that can tear you down. Don't let him do it hun!! Don't let em'
You are not stupid,and I feel bad for you. But you stand up and tell him to make up his mind about life with you.Dont cry or beg or nag. Get that serious tone of voice and tell him exactly what you expect of him.He is taking your love for granted.I really wished he could feel your pain.
yes you are stupid-let her take care of him--in the mean time get a lawyer and get everything you deserve to have -the house,cars, furniture, kids and alimony!!!! ,men are pigs
i know its hard to leave when u really care and love somebody, buh u have to think about urself first.





u might love him and u might be a good wife.... but he doesnt love you and hes not being a good husband....





you really need to leave.





gluck
Do you love yourself? Because ultimately that is what you need to do. Leave this man, he means you no good. Go do you, and get out of this emotional roller-coaster.
You should contact a lawyer...you are depressed because you married a cheater. You will feel better if you got away from him.
Not stupid , but too trusting .


Some people are selfish do not care about others .


They will not change or get better , EVER !
he did it once shame on him


he did it twice shame on you


LEAVE
get smart get a lawyer divorce him and move on once a cheater always a cheater
you deserve better. leave him.
The best advice you will ever receive: LEAVE HIM!
Show him how smart you are, get an attorney.
Kick his butt to the curb! You deserve better!
Leave him now
Yeah...especially more so, since you need to ask this question.