Any advice on how to face what may be a very angry woman without making the situation worse?Any advice to a husband going into a lioness's dean?
lol ! Awwh! You are a wise man for trying to be prepared! lol!
Maybe you can see if you can take a day off work if needed (should your daughter get sick). Let her Vent. Just keep reminding yourself, this has nothing to do w/you, she is just very, very frustrated. Be as supportive as you can. And God Bless you for even trying! Too many sadly don't. (Men %26amp; women). Good Luck !!Any advice to a husband going into a lioness's dean?
make sure u listen to everything she says. and agree to most of it.
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Man thats easy.... call her and tell her your not coming home right now.... your girlfriend just called and was extremely horny, was laying on the bed, naked and waiting for you...... that after she does you for in every positon you can think of.... you'll be home.... Then, hang up before she can say anything.... wait about 15 minutes and then go home...... wah, lah...she won't be in a fool mood, (A VERY FOOL MOOD) because of her job and the fact that your daughter was exposed to a sick child... That, my friend I PROMISE YOU.......
walk through the door with flowers, chinese take out and a bottle of good wine.
bring her flowers,n have her sit down n u rub her back,n say we will work this out,,n good luck
Doesn't sound all that bad as a lioness' den, lol.
go home and tell her: look honey i know uve probably had a bad day so why dont u go and do want ever you want by yourself i will take care of dinner the house and kids. dont worry about us. and just make sure u do take care of those things cause if not itll only be worse when she gets back
Call her and ask her what she wants you to pick up for dinner. Don't give her the option to cook--just tell her you're picking something up. If she's already started something, tell her it sounds like she's had a crazy day, and you really want to do this. It will keep in the fridge, and she can cook it for dinner tomorrow.
When you get home, set the table, put out the food, and when dinner's over say ';I'm gonna clean up. Is there anything I can do for you when I'm done?';
I would cry if my husband ever offered to do this for me!
Bottle of wine and offer to cook
Say nothing until she cools off.
Be willing to listen to her complain. Ask if there is anything you can do to help. But, under no circumstances allow her to treat you like crap because she is in a foul mood. I believe women many times believe that they can treat their spouse anyway that they want because of their mood.
Gents, you need to nip that in the bud immediately. You should be treating her with respect and visa versa. If you get all ticked off, leave the house and go for a walk until you are calm and can talk to her with dignity and respect.
She owes you the same. Not just as your spouse, but also as an example for your daughter.
Burst through the door and say ';Damn Im pissed, I have had such a horrible day, I think I shall go to bed and heal thyself.'; See how that works for you.
The pizza is a good option if that is something she enjoys. It is often nice for a woman not to have to worry about dinner on the stressful days. Flowers are good as well and just tell her how much you love her. I have had really bad days like that and my husband usually makes it better by doing special things for me. Good luck!
Just ask her if she wants to talk about it and then sit there and listen. Flowers, pizza and booze will not help.....your support will. If your wife is freaking out over your child getting exposed to another sick child, she needs to calm down. As for her boss problems, she doesn't need to bring them home. Listen for 15 minutes or so and say ';Feel better?'; then move on to another topic. Nobody needs that much negativity.
Grow some hair on your balls and tell her not to take it out on you.
Hugs, an understanding attitude, compassion, and not placing blame. Also, don't press the issue if she's not ready to discuss, especially in front of the kids. Not so sure about pizza, food is the door to a man's heart, not usually a woman's.
Let her do something on her own when you get home, offer to make dinner, mind the kids, etc. You know her best and what she likes.
Bring home some simple, yet beautiful flowers (no roses or anything typical, buy a bouquet of orchids or daisies instead). Bring home dinner or ingredients for a meal and cook for her and your daughter. Later in the evening draw her a bath and let her relax in the tub with no distractions. After you put your daughter to bed, watch a funny movie together and give her a foot or back massage before bed. $100 says she will forget about anything bad that happened earlier in the day.
Good Luck =)
I vote for rah1313
listen without trying to solve
men and autistics want solutions
females want to be validated
You poor thing. LOL
DO NOT GET HER FOOD without finding out if she's going to cook first. Your head will be bitten off if she started cooking and you walk in with food.
Flowers. Tell her when you get home that you know she's had a rough day and wanted to give her flowers to brighten her evening. Then ask if there is anything you can do...maybe even tell her not to make anything to eat that you will instead order in.
Depends, here are two options:
1) If you wan to stay married
Walk in the door and just be there for her to vent. LISTEN, don't try to solve her problems, just let her get them out and be supportive. 90% of most women aren't looking for us to fix everything just for us to care. It's against our nature, we love finding soultions, but ya gotta do what ya gotta do.
2)Want a divorce?
Walk in saying what the hell is your problem! It will take off on it's own from there. :)
Good luck
Hmmm...maybe try to find a solution before you get home and break the news. That and a pizza always helps! So...all in all...bring dinner and a solution if you can!
When I have an absolutely horrible day, I like to relax. There is nothing that makes my mood worse than having a cruddy day at work, picking up crying kids from school, driving thru traffic and then having to put in another 12 hours of work at home. Try making dinner and cleaning up after. Do something with the kids and let your woman relax. She will be a lot better if she gets time to herself. If she wants to vent, just listen. You will do fine. By the way, she should not be mean to you. You did not cause the problem.
Wow poor thing i have to deal with my hubby when he comes home like that so i know what you go though! I hate to go home from work knowing he is in a very foul mood! And I just tell him if you want to go to bed by yourself just keep it up buddy and you will be in the dog house so you better watch it sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't and when it doesn't i just sleep in my daughter room and the next day hey he comes home in alot better mood! you have to find something she likes and take it away for a while and trust me there will hardly be any foul moods in your house! but you can't back down because when it is her job and because your daughter got sick at school well hell that is not your fault or your daughter fault so your wife needs to grow up a little life can not always go her way!
Show up drunk and demand sex!
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