Need advice about husband . Mature answers only.?

Latley hubby had been haveing some ED problems.


1. How do I approach the situation without be littling him?


Men how would you want your wife to discuss this.


2. Is there any over the counter pills that actually work?Need advice about husband . Mature answers only.?
I'm sure he's noticed that he's having some problems, so it won't be breaking any news to him. He's probably just nervous to discuss it. Next time just really encourage him and let him know it's okay when he's having a hard time. In fact, when it's obvious to both would probably be a better time then bringing it up when it's easy to avoid. Then you can work on it together.


I wouldn't go with otc drugs. Prescription meds are so much safer and the way to go. Otherwise, ask your pharmasist but really he should see a doctor as he could have other problems as well.


Just be sensitive because feeling unmanly is a horrible feeling to them. keep his moral up about being a man too. Make sure he knows he is still your MAN. And that it's okay that he's having problems, that you'll work on it together.Need advice about husband . Mature answers only.?
go into this problem as a team...look up lubes or techniques online on your own and in bed offer to test them out ...be almost spontaneous about it...make it seem like a new sexual adventure...if all else fails go to doc and try some low grade ed meds
yes try yohimbe it works my husband tried it and he said it worked i didnt even know he used it.encourage him maybe try something new out of the ordinary send the kids away to gramparents spend the whole time exploring new grounds it good for both of you
Your husband needs a complete physical exam! Erectile dysfunction can be more than just ';not being able to get it up!';


The thing they don't tell you in all the ED medication commercials is the fact that ED can be an early warning about the condition of the Coronary Arteries in the heart.





Plaque that forms on the walls of coronary arteries can also form on the arteries that feed the blood to the penis that causes an erection.





There have been many men who have saved their lives or avoided having a heart attack by seeing their doctor about ED! You might just save your husband a heart attack by encouraging him to see his doctor about his ED!
Dont make fun of him for sure! Guys, like me, like it ';straight in the balls';, just tell him straight up. It might hurt a little bit but sex is all about making it the best for the girl so in the end he will be happy; and so will you. Good luck :)... Cant help you with the meds question though, sorry.
How can people be intimate , and not be able to express their problems. You are being cheated also. So first off, go to a Doctor. And discuss it with him together. Be brave, not a wimp.
He must obviously know the problem if you are aware. Be gentle but tackful in recommending he see a doctor. There are a few physical problems that could be serious. If he's losing the edge because of age, your kind words may relieve his anxiety. There is no OTCs that work.
Don't make fun of him and be understanding.


Why don't you read up on it on wikipedia?


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erectile_dy鈥?/a>
If everything is fine in your relationship; than go see a Dr. he will prescribe you guys some pills. Please don't buy anything without going to see a Dr.
..simple! stay away from the subject of sex totally. But touch him with innocence. If he addresses it, answer simple and complimentive to him. When He is ready- give it up!! without your needs, no foreplay, no games. It's him and his way for at least a time or two- then he will start thinking about you and forget his losss of attention. Just be happy and untill a few times later, then he will probobly reward you with a natural satisfaction that will and can get better with the least amount of stress or complications about the subject. Don't look for a fix. It is his brain via YOU.
I don't think there's a GOOD way to approach the subject, but honesty is always the best policy. I would first ask him to consider the possibility that there's something medically wrong. You want to eliminate that before you go trying over-the-counter pills. One of the reasons a man can have trouble in that department is clogged arteries. The capillaries down there are very small and it doesn't take much to stop them up. It could be that a change of diet combined with some exercise will help him, but he really should have a doctor check him out to confirm this and to eliminate other possibilities.





If the problem isn't physical, it could be psychological, and you'll have to either get him to talk to a shrink or talk to you. It could be he's bored, and you need to find a way to spice things up a little.





If he checks out okay healthwise, the doctor can prescribe Viagra or something similar to get things going again. I can't say one way or another about over the counter remedies. I haven't had need of any of that stuff.
See a doctor.
Viagra and several of its counter parts work perfectly well. However, be aware that they have side affects, and also, will keep him up for action for quiiiite a while. Those pills do not just keep you erect when you are in the mood, they set off chemicals to keep you erect and let you stay that way. They have been very popular and successful, so I am sure that will work out fine.





If you are noticing it, I am SURE he is thinking about it too. I do not know him or his personality. Everyone would like to hear 'bad news' a different way. Some guys would benefit from blunt honesty where others would rather you fib a bit and act like you are concerned you arent doing something right rather than he is having problems.





Is he the right age for this to be happening? The younger he is, the tougher this will be on him. The older he is, more than likely the easier. It is, however, a common fact of life. Women go through menopause, and men lose some of their... well, abilities.





One possible way to approach him is to tell a story, such as 'My friend so and so said she and her husband started using viagra, you know, to be weekend warriors, and they said it was just amazing! We ought to try to have a crazy weekend like that!' Make it sound more like an adventure than something he needs. Tell him youll bring the lingerie and the energy and anything else he could possibly be interested in and itll be like you were crazy college kids under the sheet again. Make it just something fun and naughty and be flirty about it. That way he can be receptive to trying it without feeling like he NEEDS it, or that you think he needs it. If he is up for it, do give him the craziest night or weekend you can think of and make him feel really amazing. Itll make him more interested in the pills, and also reaffirm that you find him sexy and that you want to be with him that way. Also, if he has been worried about it at all, but scared to talk to you about it, it gives him an out as well.





Just an idea, hope it can help!
My friend just had the same problem with her husband. They sat down and talked about it with each other.. and he was kinda glad she brought it up because he didn't know how to say anything to her. They went to the doctors together and discussed it. Things actually worked out well for them! Now they even joke about it sometimes!





Good Luck!!