I just got in an argument with my husband please advice ??

i just got in an argument with my husband and it was because i told him to help me clean up our daughter's mess but he told me that because im the woman i should do it ...i mean i always do everything ...i clean his mess,do laundry , wake up at 5 to cook his lunch for work,take care of the girls,clean and prepare food for when he returns home and when he gets here just relax,,,,pay his bills if he needs me to go to the store i go he only throws the trash and he says because he brings the money ,,,,i mean i know that mexican men dont do anything because the girl has to do it but doesnt hurt to help once in a while and only on sunday...i mean he doesnt buy me presents because he thinks is a waste so i really dont ask him anymore but at the house what u think i need to know what u guys think am i wrong or is he being the childish and mexican era style ....I just got in an argument with my husband please advice ??
Is he a male chauvinist pig?





Read your question. You gave yourself the answer. There's a cultural difference between your opinion of a woman, and his.





Lots of luck getting him to change!I just got in an argument with my husband please advice ??
Think about this...if a child is raised without household responsibility,%26amp; his mother treats him like a king,when he gets married he expects his wife to do the same.Obviously you've been together for a while %26amp; by doing everything up until now,you've become his mother.The only hope you have of changing this is to ask him to help you with certain things,or leave him so you can train the next man better.I know it must sound too simple,but it really is a take it or leave it deal.I would have never married someone that expected me to do everything,so I never feel put upon...BOL to you.
Well Im a stay at home wife and I do everything!! I have no problem doing it either because he is the one who brings home the money. And when I was married before, I was married to a mexican as well and even when I did work and so did he, I still did everything so???? I think its just the mexican thing. Cuz my (white) man now, tries to take out the garbage and clean up after himself and I wont let him... because he works hard enough already so....So if you dont work... dont complain about ';working'; at home.. not many of us get to do that...
So.. that sounds like a happy marriage to me. People who are marreid argue about all sorts of stupid little meaningless things and then they get over it.
did you not know he was a slob b4 you married him??up till now i worked full time (currently pregnant/maternity leave) and my husband helped around the house but now i dont work i do 95% of housework but thats not to say he wouldnt if i asked
Let me ask you a ?? Is this how your life with him started and if so do you want to continue like this? I work 6 days a week about 12-14 hrs a day. When I get home I rest for about an hour and then I help her here. Sounds like he is living in the 1960's. Talk to acouncilorr and decide if its better to stay and be miserable or leave. Only you can make the call.
This guy is an ***...





Dump him.
Your husband has an unrealistic view of marriage, women and life in general. You are describing slavery, not a marriage.


Life is too short to put up with a male like this.
no he is wrong! his job is only what 8 hrs a day 5 days a week, whereas yours is 24/7
Is he the kind of guy that you can talk to rationally about this? We live in 2008 and yes i do think that if the husband works the wife who doesn't should do the majority of things in the house and usually it works out because the wife is in the house most of the time and likes to know where everything is. But they can also help a little doesn't even have to be cleaning... when i get my daughter from school, i get into her homework and get her a snack and then when my partner is home i cook dinner and he sometimes helps or talks to me while i'm cooking as i appreciate the company. Then he puts her to bed and reads her a story. So your kids should be shared.
listen, i hate to break it to ya, but you knew it was gonna be this way when you got into a relationship with him.. their mama'a take care of them forever and they shouldnt have to life a finger around the house, unless they are hear illegally and they live in a house with a bunch of men... my ex (who happened to be mexican) not only rarely cleaned or cooked or anything, but he couldnt even hold a good job... then, he decided beating me and cheating on me would be the way to make me happy, and ya know what, it did... cause as soon as i divorced him, i've never been happier... anyway, my point is, men from other countries have it completely different then men from here... as long as they take care finantially, then we are expected to do the rest.. like i said, i will not feel sorry for you since you knew it was this way too begin with.. you cant change a man... you know this.. my italian man is somewhat the same... he does the repairs and works, i do EVERYTHING else... and so does his mother... if i ever saw his father do anything then play a computer game or flip the tv channel, i would die of shock... however, my man is a wonderful husband and extremely involved father, and my best friedn.. so he makes me want to do a lot of what i do... sorry lady, i think you're stuck with what you got.. good luck! i have sworn off mexican's since my ex husband