I have a question regarding my husband????Need advice?

My husband and I usually have a very healthy sex life. Usually we have sex every couple of days if not every day. Well.....Last Saturday night he went out (and I do trust my husband) and Sunday I tried to initiate sex and he said he wasnt ready. I didnt think too much of it and now it has been four days and he doesnt seem interested at all. Could it be that he is just tired and really not ready, or could it possibly be deeper than that. Please be real on this subject I really am getting kind of nervous about the situation. Could he be just masturbating and not ready.....I don't know any input would be appreciated.I have a question regarding my husband????Need advice?
don't jump to conclusions


i am sure you have had weeks where you just didn't want to have sex yourself for four days or more and you weren't having your period or anything too. where you were just tired and stressed out. you sound like you have a healthy marriage and good trust in between each other. Tonight offer to give him a simple back massage. my husband rarely turns me down for sex but he has a few times because he is just tired and stressed so i just tell him to roll over and rub his back for him.





if he keeps acting strange talk to him about it sometimes men are stubborn to talk about important stuff. if he is stubborn just explain to him that you love him and you are his wife and your very concerned that he is stressed out. do NOTcause him to jump on the defense though just be calm about it im sure theres nothing to worry about


married for 3 years nowI have a question regarding my husband????Need advice?
sweet heart, it could be a number of things....get more info together.....then we can help with the more info, it is now time to park his butt in a chair and do some serious talking...he has had plenty of time to rest and things are not flying right....but keep an open mind and be ready for what ever he says...good or bad....and read between the lines! you know what i mean
could be that he has his needs taken care of already, either when he went out or he took care of them himself, but if you trust your husband, there is no need to worry.





Stress and lack of sleep can kill a mans sex drive (or at least it can for me, and I'm a man) if he has been tired or stressed this week that very well could be the cause





You can ask him why he hasn't responded, ask if he did masterbate or if he is just too stressed. If he is just stressed, try having sex but focus on him, let him be on the bottom while you do most of the work, it should help him relax





I wouldn't worry about, sounds like you have a healthy marriage.
i've been in a similar situation,i would either watch to see what happens the next couple of days or maybe ease into a conversation with him on your concerns and how your feeling. communication is always the best to work ptoblems out. i sure hope you work things out. good luck.
First to do - talk to him!
ive the guy a break. He probably just wasn't feeling well. If it is long term then you might have a problem.
Well, it might take for you to have a few more years on you to realize that even males aren't always in the mood. I know, I always thought that a guy wouldn't turn sex down, but when you think about it, why should all guys be the same. Women aren't. My days of 3 times a day seems so long ago. Don't worry, don't bug him or ask questions. Guys have hormonal problems to but that's a faily new subject. You might check that out.
it could be if he is one of those guess that really are into loving someone and sex is just something extra that come with the package and maybe he is seeing if anything will change without haveing sex, like would it make u or him think different about eachother without having sex everyother day or something... i dought if he can last more den a week though
Talk to him about it. I can think of a million different reasons for this. Be open to him and speak your mind. Good luck!
A sudden change in attitude toward sex just doesn't happen if you are tired, you would see a more gradual decline in sexual activity or skipping a few days, especially if you were having sex every couple of days. Why would he be masturbating if you are willing?


Sounds like him might have strayed that Saturday night, maybe found something more exciting.
there are plenty of reasons, maybe he's masturbating, or maybe he's sleeping around and feels guilty. don't jump to conclusions, im sure it's nothing. actually im not sure, i dont know you or your husband.
Has he changed anything lately like a job or anything like that. His job might have gotten harder. Or it could be that he has found someone else. Maybe he thinks that you have more children and he isn't going to have time to be intimate anymore.
sometimes that can happen, but other times, honestly he could be cheating on you... what man in his right mind turn down sex....ok..before real...just come out and ask him, ';what's the problem';. or have you done something to turn him off... if not then you really need to sit him down to see what the problem is... good luck!!!!!
This will get you nowhere.


The answers are to obtain from your husband.


Sit him down,have a drink and talk about it


There are so many factors that can lead to this.


Shutting up about it won't do a damn thing


Sky


Talk.
Ask him. There could be other things on his mind, or he could be just tired.





Maybe try mutual masturbation or something similar to put some adventure or spark back.
Could be stress from job or new child or whatever. Talk to him, but don't press too hard. He has to want to talk.





Maybe start with sensual massage. Just be patient.





Tell him you care about him and that you want him in a bad way.





If that doesn't work, consider therapy together.
I don't think that there is much we can do or say.You really need to talk to your husband and get to the root of the problem,no pun intended.
Well my husband and I used to have sex daily until he began working a different job that was very demanding/tiring. He isn't as active since.
This is speculation on your part so I (a man) will give you something to work with. Possibly cheating yes, but just as possibly not so.


Some of this has to do with how long you have been to gather just as much as how long you have been married. Most men that ';fall in love'; are in fact having a pshycological operation occuring within there being. (WOMEN TOO)





This is how it works in short.


A person projects the aspect of themselves they are unaware of on to the oppposit sex. A man has an (anima) a woman an (animus) in some circles it is also caled the soul image. Regardless the projection is placed upon the sex partner. The sex partner carries the projection untill it is worn off by a vaiety of things often simply time. Time does this by making you a human being ti the others eyes rather than the IDEAL.


The human being shits and pisses, bleeds feels pain and suffers complains and at times stinks. The Ideal never does.


The projection holds untill your partner sees you as a human being rather than the Goddess or Princess.


At this time a relationship really begins if it is going to. If your partner percived you as the WOMAN of his DREAMS you are in for a let down when he begins to see you as a human female.(and vice versa). Once you are a human you can never be the Goddess again. Everything in your relationship changes. If he is a boy chances are he will find someone else to carry his projection and his cycle will continue. If he is a man then he may have difficulties for a while because he will not understand what is happening any more than you do. It is noit about you really if you are not getting the normal sex activitiy. It is all about him. You carried a prjection of his which was his soul (anima) now you are not(maybe). Better though that you are not carrying it, as well for you to see him as a failable human that stinks bleeds and does other human things too.


This is a very short version of something that took me years to understand, and it may not fit perfecdtly with you or him but it is very possible that you are dealing with this type of thing.