Need advice please, husband came home at 8AM drunk with more alcohol...?

We have been getting in arguments lately, and he won't talk to me for the last week. He came home late last Monday, and would not explain why and refused to talk to me and always walked out of the house and wouldn't answer my calls.


This prompted me to check the phone bill and I found calls made to a number every single night, sometimes 10 calls in one night sometimes 5 sometimes 2, but every nite he makes calls to the same phone number. I have asked him who it is, he said its to his guy friend, and so I asked him why he calls him so much and he never answers. Also, I was getting angry because he isn't paying bills... I keep asking him to give me money for the bills and he just hasn't and doesn't respond.


He also admitted on Saturday that he stayed out late to 5AM on Thursday night because him and his friend stayed at his job to drink... he works at a restaurant.





So then last night he never came home... he came home at 8AM this morning with alcohol in his hands. He reeked of alcohol and looked as maybe he could have been on drugs.





I don't think he is cheating, I have called the number and its a guy. But the only conclusion I can come to is drugs, I mean... why else would you call someone 10 times every nite?





So I told him he cannot drink alcohol in the house at 8AM and I took the bag and went outside to throw it in the garbage... he got mad and locked me out of the house. I was stuck outside and finally he came and unlocked the door, he screamed at me that he will drink the wine in the house then.





I don't know what to do... one other thning that concerns me is that he drives a motorcycle home and he is driving this motorcycle drunk! I am leaving to my parents house tomorrow, I already took a 10 day vacation from work that he was supposed to join me but now he doesn't want to go.





Should I email his boss and let him know that my husband is drinking the alcohol at the restaurant all night? if thats even where he is... or what about his drunk driving? what do I do about his drunkeness at 8AM???





I don't know what to do..Need advice please, husband came home at 8AM drunk with more alcohol...?
Leave for a while allow him to come home to an empty house stir up his comfort zone..you take control of the situation and stop nagging him about his inmaturity..sober him up with action..Need advice please, husband came home at 8AM drunk with more alcohol...?
Don't do anything except go to your parents house. Take some time away from him and this situation and clear your head. Ask your parents, or other people that know you and your husband, for advice. Just don't anything until you get a chance to remove yourself from this and calm down a little.
tell him you want to go out to lunch to talk about it,instead drive him to a doctor or therapist...


n tell them the whole story n his boss well depends! b/c they might fire him! only if you think the boss will be supportive!





ow n take away the motorcycle keys n frezz the bank accounts!





let him know in your house you dont mess around!
Well, i think you both need help. (Married counseling).


First, he either have some problems and afraid to dealing with, Or he may have girl/boy friend that you don't know.





Drunk drive is not alone endangering to himself and other and also illegal by law. (You can call the police when he doing that).





If he drink his boss liquor, his boss will know because they intending to doing their inventory.





IF married counseling doesn't help than you should help him pack up and show him his road.
I dont want this to sound bad or any thing but maybe he is cheating on you with a guy..... Good luck to you!
How long have you guys been arguing for?


You mentioned he's not speaking to you right now. Is this a common occurrence in your marriage?


It sounds like he is indifferent to you and not to mention, a mean man (for locking you outside your house and all the other things).


Sounds like he's getting rip-roaring drunk or high and passing out and then coming home.


I wouldn't involve his boss but have a sit-down with him and ask him, WTH is going on?


Do you guys have children? If so, you may want to consider some other things as recourse since that is a game-changer.
He's ignoring you, he's not paying his share of the bills, he comes home at 8 in the morning drunk, and he's riding a motorcycle under the influence. Wow.





Go to your parents and get away for the situation for ten days as planned. I suspect that he'll end up in jail or the hospital sometime during that ten days.
Without knowing how long you've been married or if you have kids on the surface it looks like it might be time to move on. The other thought would be if you know of a police officer you can trust to call him when your husband is driving or riding drunk. It might change his way but could cost you court and job wise. Once someone becomes an alcoholic they are always one.
hahahah you still have time to escape hell. Best advice, leave while you can. Try and help him out but if he doesn't want to be helped, run as fast as you can.