Strange behavior in my husband, need advice?

I have been with my husband for over a year and a half, we've been married for 7 months. We have always gotten along well, always been best friends as well as lovers, and I have enjoyed our relationship very much. But a few days ago he got more angry than I have ever seen him. My question is, as of tonight over the past three days he has exhibited the same anger response in a couple of situations and it's been directed me (nothing physical). I don't know what to do to help him calm down, or why he is getting so upset all of a sudden. He has always been a calm person, very laid back and sweet, and now out of the blue twice in three days he has gotten very upset. He says nothing is happening at work and anything, but I feel lonely and sad from his behavior. I know it sounds dumb, and I feel happy in my marriage, but I don't want this to turn into something bigger and worse. Any ideas or suggestions?Strange behavior in my husband, need advice?
Know that anger has it's roots in PAIN. One gets angry because there is a pain trigger.


The anger is a result of the trigger.


What is the trigger?


Unless you touched on something from his childhood - it can only be from guilt. He has done something that, internally, he never wanted to do. Like, an affair. He is being eaten alive from the guilt and it is this self-effacing pain that shows itself as anger.


You can ask all you want. Until he actually exposes his own guilt and shame - you cannot do anything about this.


This is not about you - it's about him.


All you can do is tell him that you will support him and continue to love him NO MATTER what has occurred.


(Is this a true statement?)


This is not about his work.Strange behavior in my husband, need advice?
when things happen, communication is the key, u have to find out why he is angry. when my husband began to be angry all of the time, we didn't talk, i was an avoider of things, and not communicating can kill a marriage. sometimes the anger is about worrying about something else, sometimes its because the man is cheating on u.
he might be stressed or angry at himself. Anything that might be bothering him? economically maybe? anyone at work? there is obviously something bothering him and he's been vulnerable.


Whatever it is, he shouldn't get mad at you! remind him that you are his wife and best friend and how much you love him, and that the way he has being acting is hurting you.
Sounds like either displacement - he he upset with you about - say your sex life or lack thereof and yet he yells about last night's pizza.





The other possibility is he feels out of control - or a loss of control and that makes him feel panic and anger.
mayb he lost his job or he got demoted... but got no nerve to tell you yet call his work to make sure he's there tomorrow. :) Good luck.
Hi Krista, a person can disgust themselves with millions of


characters and also mask it well.


Don't be afraid though, but you had to keep him in watch.


A lot of people only found out some of their spouses


disgusting behavior after the marriages.


These people are very good in hiding all sorts of their inner


characters and for this, people always advice us to carefully study


what's the men's or women for that matter, their characters is.


And always be alert and see what's the trigger point is.


Anyway, don't go to the conclusion for now,


make up your mind only when you know well about his mind.