I want to escape from my abusive husband. I need your advice?

How do I get admitted in a YWCA battered wife shelter?





Do I need to call first?


Do I need to just turn up?


Do I need to go through a counselor or police?


Are there pre-conditions I need to meet to be accepted?


I have a child and absolutely no money at all. What's gonna happen to us?


What sort of things I can take with me? documents? jewelery? books? clothes?





Thanks so muchI want to escape from my abusive husband. I need your advice?
Girl, you are in my prayers. I do not know where you are, but call the police, tell them it is an emergency, you need to get out now. The police can put you in touch with a woman in need hot line, they will help you. You need to take birth certificates, social security numbers, any important documents, any pictures and anything you want, as you will most likely not be able to get later. I wish you all the happiness your heart and hands can hold.I want to escape from my abusive husband. I need your advice?
When it is safe call the local Domestic violence shelters in your area and set up a time and date for you to go in, a time that is safe for you to leave with your child. When that time comes leave with all identification, for you and your child. Take as many of your things you can. here is a website that can help you out and a phone number they have homeless shelters and shelters for women who are going through domestic violence. Good luck!!!
first thing you should do is call the police on your husband and get the police report this way you have documentation about your abuse, second,call the shelter and tell them you have a child and you are scared for you and your child's life, third, do not take any money or jewelry or anything that is of value, you can't trust anyone these days, and fourth, make sure you never go back to this man, because if you do you will be putting your child at risk, once a man abuses his partener he will always abuse her, don't let him sweet talk you, abusive men are really good at sweet talking, but remember how abusive he is, if he can abuse you then you know he will abuse your child to, he feels he has full control over you and your child, once you get to the shelter stay there they will help you in every way they can, but please DON'T GO BACK TO YOUR ABUSIVE HUSBAND. good luck I hope everything works out for you and your child......
Firstly, get as many documents as you can, birth certificates, marriage certificates etc, as it may be harder to get them at a later date. Have you a friend you can call on to help you? Or a family member? I would call the police first and ask if there is anything they can do to help and transport you. You can get benefits, don't worry about money. Take clothes for you and baby and personal items, just get out quick.





Good Luck and be safe
sweetie first you need to call the police the very next time he put his hands on you if you want to wait til than, if not just go to the shelter or you can call but am sure you dont need anything but self. try to slow take clothes out of the house day by day and if you can save a little money up do so. but just go to the shelter and dont have any contact with him once you get there or after. the shelter will advise you on what to do and how to go about it. GodBless
I don't know how you go about getting admitted to a YWCA battered wife shelter, but it might not be the only option out there. There may also be a domestic violence shelter around, too. These places are generally kept secret for the benefit of those housed there, but you should be able to find out more by calling your local Legal Aid Society or another public interest group. Good luck.
Call the police and ask them for phone numbers or any help to escape. Since you have kids to think about, you need to get out NOW!! If you or your kids have visible signs of abuse, just show them to ONE COP, and I assure you, they will help you. I don't know what you will be allowed to bring, but I would suggest taking all you want while you can. Store most at a friend's house, or a relative. Good luck, and good for you escaping!
Call the police and Ask them for the numbers you need. Take all Important documents!!! Birth certificates, shot records, etc.. Also, take anything you think you may not see again, Your Jewelry, any books and YES! Clothes!!! For you and your Child. Be Safe and Good Luck !!!!
Police first they will get you out safely and you can get protection from then on. Honey your life is too precious too waste call now.. Don't wait. I've seen people almost dead from abusive relationships. They never EVER change...Please get help. The police would take you this second..
Just pack all your belongings. Make sure you take the children's birth certificates and your passport etc. If you go to the police they will help you.





Get out as soon as you can - good luck!
Just show up. They will help.